Actually, other than in very small towns & rural areas this doesn't happen in Italy much anymore..
she looks like "i can't stop my hand from grabbing my boob!".
Sadintexas, has it exactly right. If you think you're boring/suck at conversation etc, then you will never be able to approach people or make conversation. First things first, you have to think you're interesting. Every person is, just because not everyone will find you interesting, does not mean you aren't. You need to find those that do find you interesting. A person who actively participates in their interests is by default more interesting and fun to talk with than someone who doesn't which is why it's a double bonus to join a group..
Everyone has their own taste of attraction. Yes, i do notice women who I am attracted to. What do I do about it? I strike up a conversation and if we click, then we click. I am not going to date a women just because of what she looks like. I have to be able to get along with the female and have a good time with her. So tell me how I am being shallow?.
I hope your boy friend feels more respect for you then to even go around her untill she gets her self in line..
Your gf should not be held responsible for her mothers behavior. Her mom is an individual and is acting of her own accord..
Maybe the rest of their profiles could give you some context.
You have constantly rejected her yet you are leading her on by giving her hope there could be more, you know this yet keep doing it. You also said this.