SOME women are looking for a man to finance them, SOME men are looking for a woman to look after financially. It tends to work. It is not "wrong"..
You need to find someone else for you to fall in love with.... right now you have a crush on the coworker. keep finding new guys to date so you can find the one. That's your best shot, because you can only really love one person at a time... so as I said, you need to find a replacement to full your heart..
From the beginning he knew I was really into him and he just kept saying maybe and that he was unsure about his future so he didn't want to rush into anything..