At my age most of the women I date have kids. I generally meet the kids by third or fourth date and the same with my kids 26yo son and 15yo daughter. I think once you meet someone who you feel you like and are comfortable with there is no reason to keep them hidden from the kids. I do find women seem to be more reluctant to introduce me to their sons than daughters for some reason?.
I do want to talk to her about it before completely cutting her off or loose complete interest in her..
I've never known anyone who's been blackout drunk to have forgotten even taking the first drink. That said, if you were so altered (date rape drug or alcohol) that you have zero memory of the event, then you were too altered to consent. This was not consensual sex..
This staunch opposition to casual sex I see so many women possess is meaningless and obsolete. It's nothing more than an evolutionary vestige, like our tiny tails buried in our pelvises, or some the facial muscles that don't do anything, or our appendices..